Challenging Behaviour

AnonyMouse_1490 · 2006-01-14T15:15:42+0000

We have a 3 year old in our setting whose behaviour is getting worse instead of better. He has been with us since he was 2.6.mths. His nan or mum stayed with him when he first came for a few weeks. He was so disruptive then and investigated all our cupboards, climbed on the stage etc. etc. His mum and nan were oblivious to his behaviour and sat there reading all the travel brochures in our role-play area. I found it rather embarassing because I was constantly telling him off. Not that they minded because they said he was ours now and had to learn to behave. Not wanting to offend them I explained to them that he seemed settled now so neither had to stay with him. He was full of awe and wonder at all our activities and mum and nan said that he had never experienced any creative activity. Over the next 6 months he did improve. He has returned after the Christmas break and his behaviour is really bad. He isn't playing with the children . When encouraged by an adult in a small group he pushes forward and does other attention seeking things like snatching and hitting children and adults..He is refusing to take part in any group activity. He just struts around with his hands on his hips complaining he is bored. He is very repetitive and not eager to learn or experience new things only playing with one certain puzzle, will only do painting with a certain brush, take part in singing if we are singing a certain song. When we lead him to another activity he fights and punches us. He can only function with a 1-1 ratio for all of the session. I have made his mum aware of the situation she says he is just a lively character. She says he is very obsessional about things at home because his nan doesn't have much energy and has to limit him a lot.I have mentioned to her that I would like our special needs advisor to observe him when she comes in a few weeks (although it will be impossible for her NOT to notice him) The mum isn't going to give her consent to this saying that he hasn't got a behaviour problem but has offered to send the nan to pre-school with him.!!!!!!! At least his nan does comment on his bad behavior at home when she brings him in to each session.His mum has asked me to discuss all issues with the child's nan in future not her. The child and his parents live with the grandparents and his mum works full-time. What an interesting week i'm in for next week. I

By AnonyMouse_1490
January 14, 2006 in All Early Years settings & Childminders: General Issues

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