Guest Posted June 20, 2006 Share Posted June 20, 2006 Oh, what a day - emergency staff meeting - redundancies for teachers and ta's next term - from jan 1st - some of each!! What nightmare - then, also find out that the date that we will have to wait to find out who is the 20th october, date of my wedding - 21st october - what a nightmare and unrequired stress - excellent - having a bad day!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnonyMouse_2732 Posted June 20, 2006 Share Posted June 20, 2006 Sorry, nothing to say - Except - Tons of hugs and kisses!! Sue Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 20, 2006 Share Posted June 20, 2006 how difficult for you. getting ready to celebrate while waiting for the news hope it all goes OK and you still enjoy your special day Jo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnonyMouse_5013 Posted June 20, 2006 Share Posted June 20, 2006 Oh thats awful, wishing you all the best! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 20, 2006 Share Posted June 20, 2006 It's interesting that they have given you all advance warning of this. I suppose they hope that this will give everyone the opportunity of looking for something else and perhaps they then won't need to make any redundancies - but its a tough call. Really miserable for you just when you are getting married. Hoping everything will work out for you which afterall should be your happiest year. Nikki Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 21, 2006 Share Posted June 21, 2006 Not a lot to say, except I wish you well! Sometimes things that seem so negative, do in the long run turn out to be a 'turning point' and for the best - so here's hoping! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnonyMouse_1027 Posted June 21, 2006 Share Posted June 21, 2006 oh dear thinking of you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnonyMouse_4495 Posted June 21, 2006 Share Posted June 21, 2006 Just to say 'keep smiling' and not to worry too much... Have they told you this early in the hope that some people could apply for voluntary redundancy and take the pressure off the decision making? As Raine says, it could be a turning point for some - my (now) husband was made redundant 2 1/2 years ago, just after we had moved into our new house and as we were thinking about getting married. He decided to go self-employed and work as a contractor and now earns more than twice his leaving salary and can choose, to an extent, when he wants to move on to better his career or if he wants to change direction or specialise in a particular area of work (he is in the chemical industry) It was really anxious times, but looking back, it was the best thing that happened. I was never one to believe in silver linings to grey clouds, but have a much sunnier outlook on life as a result. Oh, and enjoy the planning for your wedding - it WILL be the best day of your life! RB x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 21, 2006 Share Posted June 21, 2006 Positive thinking equals positive results. Marriage is for life a job is ...just that, a job. Like others have said, I do hope you find the silver lining. Good Luck, Peggy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 22, 2006 Share Posted June 22, 2006 Thank you all for your kind words!!! am feeling a bit better now - focussing on the wedding!! the reason that they told up all so early is because the process takes that long!! got a very complex timetable to work through including governers and unions and they dont count the summer holidays as 'working weeks' hence we have to wait this long - and also, the head hadnt take the budget to the governers until last week - so too late for it all to be sorted by the end of term!! very annoying!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnonyMouse_705 Posted June 22, 2006 Share Posted June 22, 2006 Rotten timing but is there ever a good time? Once the initial shock and uncertaintly has died down try to focus on the wedding, as for the job what is to be will be. Having survived my husband's two redundancies in three years and his employer going into administration early this year, it is very true that as one door closes another one opens. The results for us have been positive, hard work yes but we survived and are stronger. Best wishes for the future. Deb Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 23, 2006 Share Posted June 23, 2006 Life knocks you down sometimes, poor you, you will pick yourself up and carry on - we have to don't we? Best of luck from me too and hugs and best wishes for the big day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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